Parent-child conflict among primary and middle school students during the COVID-19 epidemic and its countermeasures
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摘要:
目的 了解考察新冠肺炎疫情期间中小学生及家长的亲子冲突状况,为促进疫情期间家庭和谐与儿童青少年心理健康水平提供参考。 方法 于2020年3月中旬采用问卷星对12 711名中小学生家长进行网络匿名调查,考察其在新冠疫情期间的情绪反应、应对方式以及亲子冲突频率和年级发展趋势。 结果 亲子冲突按发生率大小依次是情绪对立(62.3%)、言语冲突(52.6%)和身体冲突(20.5%)。38.1%的家长和23.6%的学生出现了焦虑、愤怒等负性情绪,且学生的应对方式比家长更单一。77.9%的家庭报告存在不同程度的亲子冲突,主要由孩子的学习问题(45.6%)、日常安排(22.1%)和电子产品使用(10.2%)等引起。和去年相比,31.4%的家庭报告最近1个月亲子冲突频率增多。 结论 亲子冲突在中小学生家庭中普遍存在,并受到疫情等应激因素影响。建议加强有关的心理健康教育和心理援助工作。 Abstract:Objective To investigate parent-child conflict among primary and secondary school students and their parents, and to promote family harmony and mental health of children and adolescents during the COVID-19 pandemic. Methods An anonymous online survey was completed by 12 711 parents of primary and middle school students during mid-March, 2020. Emotional translation, coping style, parent-child conflict were collected and analyzed by grade. Results The incidence of parent-child conflict was emotional opposition (62.3%), verbal conflict (52.6%) and physical conflict (20.5%), respectively. About 38.1% of parents and 23.6% of students experienced negative emotions, such as anxiety and anger, and the students used coping styles that were more uniform than those of their parents. About 77.9% of families reported that they experienced different levels of parent-child conflict, which was mainly caused by child learning difficulties(45.6%), daily arrangements(22.1%), and the use of electronic devices(10.2%); compared with the previous year, about 31.4% of families reported an increase in the frequency of parent-child conflicts in the last month. Conclusion Parent-child conflict is highly prevalent in the families of primary and middle school students, and such conflicts were affected by stress-related factors, which included COVID-19. It's necessary to improve the provision of relevant mental health education and psychological assistance. -
Key words:
- Coronavirus /
- Parent-child relations /
- Conflict (Psychology) /
- Mental health /
- Students
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表 1 新冠肺炎疫情期间不同年级与性别中小学生亲子冲突频率比较(x±s)
Table 1. Comparison of the frequency of parent-child conflicts between primary and secondary school students of different grades and genders during the new crown pneumonia epidemic(x±s)
组别 人数 统计值 身体冲突 言语冲突 情绪对立 年级 一 1 272 0.5±0.7 0.9±0.8 1.0±0.7 二 1 277 0.4±0.7 0.8±0.8 1.0±0.7 三 978 0.4±0.7 0.9±0.9 1.1±0.9 四 1 104 0.3±0.6 0.8±0.8 1.0±0.9 五 816 0.3±0.6 0.8±0.9 0.9±0.9 六 922 0.3±0.6 0.8±0.9 1.0±0.9 七 1 504 0.3±0.6 0.8±0.9 0.9±0.9 八 1 011 0.2±0.5 0.7±0.8 0.8±0.9 九 1 094 0.1±0.5 0.6±0.8 0.7±0.9 十 1 055 0.1±0.4 0.6±0.8 0.7±0.8 十一 825 0.1±0.3 0.4±0.6 0.5±0.7 十二 924 0.1±0.3 0.4±0.6 0.5±0.7 F值 62.9 43.4 47.2 性别 女 6 531 0.2±0.5 0.7±0.8 0.8±0.8 男 6 144 0.3±0.6 0.8±0.8 0.9±0.9 t值 -9.1 -5.9 -7.3 注:P值均 < 0.01。 表 2 新冠肺炎疫情期间不同亲子冲突中小学生家庭特点比较(x±s)
Table 2. Comparison of family characteristics of primary and secondary school students in different parent-child conflicts during the COVID-19 epidemic(x±s)
组别 人数 孩子的成绩水平 家长文化程度 冲突未增多 8 720 2.59±0.84 2.00±0.93 冲突增多 3 991 2.46±0.85 2.08±0.92 t值 8.12 -4.15 P值 < 0.01 < 0.01 -
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